I’m so excited that The Four Man Plan has found its way to the UK. The most exciting part is, I think you gals really get it and REALLY need it! From what I hear so far, things are a little different over there. Tell me if I’m wrong, but I’ve been told that it goes something like this: girl goes to pub or club, girl meets boy, girl and boy drink several pints or shots, girl and boy start snogging or more and POOF! you have a new boyfriend for the night, a week, or however long it lasts. No “dates”, no “asking out”, no “getting to know each other”. Can this be so?

I’m sure it’s a generalization, and to be perfectly frank, it’s not so different from how a lot of folks find themselves in relationships here. But does that seem a bit random? Wouldn’t it seem more likely to be a successful relationship if you meet a man by the light of day? I don’t know, I kind of think it’s a good idea to see if you can have a conversation with someone, and find out whether or not they are honest, loving and willing before locking on. Don’t get me wrong, I did it the other way a bunch of times, to my deep misery.

The US 4MPlanners have been using The Plan to a great deal of success. Some find that their love lives are now manageable, make sense, more relaxing and most importantly FUN! And of course, many have found themselves that ideal man, some after just a few short weeks, some after 65 weeks of planning, since the US version came out! Join us in the FORUM, just click that big gray button on the left, and get all the dish, ask your questions and share your stories. I pop in almost everyday to give advice, though it is rivalled by the wisdom of your fellow 4MPlanners.

I’m so looking to hearing from you, I want to know EVERYTHING…and welcome you to the glory of The Four Man Plan!

 - Author of the Four Man Plan.
Visit the official 4MP website.

The Plan has hit the UK - and you can get it here! Date at least four men at any one time, break the habits that make you suck at love, and find the ultimate prize.  If you want to find out more about how the plan works, the Daily Mail ran a huge feature on it earlier this year.

If you have recently taken up the plan or if you just need some dating advice, leave a comment with your dilemma by the end of February and Cindy will get in touch with a selection of commenters for some personal advice and assistance!